We know what a narcissist looks like, right? He is loud, arrogant, and obsessed with mirrors. He drives a flashy car and interrupts everyone. But there is another, more dangerous type of narcissist who flies under the radar. He is the “Nice Guy.”
Covert narcissism is insidious because it hides behind a mask of humility and victimhood. He seems sensitive, misunderstood, and helpful. But underneath that soft exterior lies the same entitlement and lack of empathy as the overt type. Because you don’t see it coming, the damage can be devastating. Here are seven red flags that the “Nice Guy” is actually a covert narcissist.
