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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Tristan St John as told to Doosie Morris

The moment I knew: standing on her shoulders, I was impressed she could bear my weight

Asha Colless (left) and Tristan St John (right) at Jackson Hole, Wyoming, USA
Asha Colless and Tristan St John at Jackson Hole, Wyoming, United States. ‘I find touring life really tough, but doing it with Asha makes it so much better,’ says Tristan Photograph: Tristan St John

In 2021 I was at the National Institute of Circus Arts in Melbourne. That’s where I first laid eyes on Asha. She was part of a group of new students joining my cohort. She instantly struck me as someone I wanted to be friends with. At ballet class that afternoon we shared a barre and became fast friends. Over the next couple of years things remained platonic and it wasn’t until our final year that chemistry began to build.

Towards the end of that dark Melbourne winter, Asha asked if I’d work with her on some acrobatics. Every day after school we’d spend an hour or so training as a pair. There was lots of stretching and chatting, trying and failing various tricks and lots of laughs. It wasn’t long before I realised I was seriously enjoying these sessions, and not just in a professional or friendly way. I was falling in love.

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