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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
As told to Emma Joyce

The moment I knew: Adele was singing and tears rolled down my face. It felt as though the lyrics were about us

Chelsea and Cal in May 2025, standing on a bridge. Cal is wearing a pink suit and Chelseas is wearing a yellow top and black jacket
‘Sometimes he’ll surprise me with a muffin, just like when we first met’: Chelsea and Cal in May 2025. Photograph: Chelsea Angell

In 2012, I moved from the Sunshine Coast to Melbourne to join the National Institute of Circus Arts (NICA). There wasn’t a big circus or acrobatics community where I grew up, so it felt exciting to be surrounded by 23 other teenagers who shared the same passion.

I was 17, the youngest of our year, and my allocated buddy was Cal. He was a year older, full of energy and had a way of making everyone laugh. We clicked instantly, and we took the rules of being a buddy very seriously – including giving each other a muffin if one of us was injured. We both ate a lot of muffins that year.

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