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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Jane Bennetts, as told to Katie Cunningham

The kindness of strangers: I was exhausted wrangling my two young kids – then a man popped $2 into the coin-op ride

Two girls on a coin operated arcade ride.
‘I let the kids sit on those small mechanical rides …while I sat down to take a breather.’ Composite: Victoria Hart/Alamy

I was completely exhausted. While wrangling two kids aged under three, my husband and I had just moved all the way from the Kimberley to Tasmania. I remember being totally sleep deprived and trying to furnish a new house entirely from op-shops, without a support network around. I was so tired I’d recently driven the car into the fence at home – that’s the level of exhaustion I was dealing with!

We were out doing the groceries when I let the kids sit on those small mechanical rides you find out the front of shopping centres, while I sat down to take a breather. I never actually put any money in to start the rides, because I considered them a waste. When you’ve got little kids, you don’t have much disposable income to splash on silly things like that.

But an old man walked past, put $2 in the slot to start the ride, looked me in the eyes and said: “Have a nice day.” The kids were over the moon.

My children are 15 and 13 now and I still think about this often. When I was feeling utterly worn out, a stranger came along to give my kids joy – and give me a break.

There is a lot of good in simple acts. When I’m that man’s age, I’m going to put money in the kids’ rides too.

What is the nicest thing a stranger has ever done for you?

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