The call often begins with a frightened voice saying something no grandparent wants to hear: “Grandma, I’m in jail.” Within minutes, another person may come on the line claiming to be a lawyer, police officer, or court official who says thousands of dollars must be sent immediately for bail, legal fees, or another emergency. The grandparent jail scam works because criminals create panic first and discourage verification second, sometimes even using AI-generated voices to make the supposed grandchild sound convincing. The FBI’s 2025 Internet Crime Report says victims reported more than $5 million in losses from AI-linked “distress scams” during 2025, a category that includes grandparent scams using voice cloning. One simple family question, however, can turn an emotional emergency into something much easier to recognize: “What’s our family safe word?”