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Meditation Daddy
Sealy
Osher
Leah
Gondoleah
Emma
Krystal Our Lord And Saviour, Jess, Alesia, GC Gwyneth
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Thomas
Jas
Tilly
Esther Perel
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telling us how excited she is to go on a solo date, and to have some one on one time, and I was like wait a minute you’ve had like 45 single dates at this point and THEN!!!
It’s with HER OUTSIDE BOYFRIEND !
Cut to now, where and are sitting on the beach, with Sealy saying he’s shocked that it’s like, really hard to not be a giant walking fuckstick who hurts women’s feelings left right and centre by pashing them in front of other girlfriends and so on.
has organised a group date and tells us about the halfway point thing. This also means like two women don’t go on this date – it’s all nobodies besides of the gondola memoir, now known as (thank you v much to on IG for gifting me with that incredible nickname), … basically all the women we know and a few we don’t. At this point, if I don’t know your name you absolutely aren’t winning, I’m sorry ladies.
There’s tension in the house bc Jess has apparently told people she doesn’t want Damien to date other women while she’s on the show. Krystal says it’s hypocritical, and I guess it is unless they mutually agreed that’s fine.
But also I don’t really care??? I’m bored of this plot line because it went from being really positive-educational about non monogamy to this confusing backflipping from Jess between being passionately non-monogamous to being all “I am a little fairy princess looking for my strapping prince charming to whisk me away from yucky dirty polyamory”.
Like literally in this scene she says “I don’t want two partners at the end of this” and it’s likeeeeee that is so fine, and no one has to be binary in their sexuality or sexual/relational preferences. We’re allowed to follow our hearts here. But it’s not even EXPLAINED. She just went from “I have a boyfriend and I’m not going to dump him, I want to explore non monogamy” to “it’s Damien or Felix I MUST CHOOSE ONE”.
Anyway. The group date begins and everyone has a loved one turn up, from Gondoleah’s sister to Alesia’s bestie. Naturally, producers have brought Damien in. From the get go it’s clear he and Jess are pretty invested in each other.
He also seems really supportive and lovely and kind. I would like a twist where Damien also gets to be in lineup. Everyone sits down for lunch and Sealy, to his credit, isn’t being a slippery little bitch to Damien as I thought he would be. He’s actually being really mature, a word I did not think I would ever use to describe him.
In fact, Sealy is being really…. NICE?? And respectful??? I really thought he’d be a petty cuntos to Damien but instead he’s including him in conversation, respecting his stance, and not mauling Jess in front of him. WHO IS THIS AND WHAT HAVE YOU DONE WITH THE LOST DRUNK SEAL.
Felix makes it clear he’s monogamous. Damien makes it clear he loves Jess. Jess looks perpetually flummoxed like she’d prefer a few prawns on the table come alive and start zombie-snacking on everyone’s faces to distract from the awkwardness.
The other women would all like to throw Jess down the laundry chute because her Damien situation is taking up a) all the airtime, most important for those post-show teeth veneers spon con opportunities, and b) all of Sealy’s attention.
Felix asks Jess flat-out if she sees herself having two boyfriends at the end of , in an ideal world. She says no, BUT she would want the option of staying in touch with the other guy. He says “not sexually, you mean” and she says actually yes sexually.
What I am gleaning here, amidst all this confusing editing and awkwardness, is that Jess is a very curiosity-driven woman who is open to new ways of experiencing love in relationships. She tells Sealy that she is still figuring out if she could be with one man sexually forever, and she just wants a sort of openness to the concepts of non monogamy.
I want Jess to pick Damien because while Sealy is slowly (slowlyyyy) improving from having the emotional maturity of a sea cucumber to the emotional maturity of like, a prawn, Damien is already THERE WITH HER. He wants the same kinds of things. He wants monogamy with Jess down the line but he’s also open to non monogamous ways of rethinking or reworking their relationship. This is a no brainer!!
Here’s another no brainer – that the producers cashed in on being in a band by getting that band to play a gig for everyone. They’re strangely locked in a small pool fence enclosure while everyone uncomfortably sways below them.
Are they bad? No. Are they the next Guns ‘N’ Roses? Also no. Also, I don’t care. I don’t think any of us care. Sorry, Muddy Merino or Mistaken Mop Pad or whatever you’re called. Militant Moose? There were two M’s is all I remember. And I’m fairly sure all the names I just suggested were better.
Moving on! It’s single date time. picks his actual child, who reacts like his actual child.
I like Jas and I think she’s pretty mature for 24 but Meditation Daddy seems like the elderly compared to her. It’s a weird match and I hate it.
Jess has a date BUT!!! It’s with DAMIEN not Sealy, and it’s to have a “conscious conversation”. Stick a fork in me, dear god. I bet GC Gwyneth loved that line.
Instead, Felix is going out with Krystal which royally pisses off , who hasn’t had one on one time with the guy. She needs her emotional support water bottle and she needs it NOW!!!
Except she has had as much as Krystal, she’s just chosen to use it to grind on him which honestly is probably way more enjoyable than what Felix and Krystal do which is go DOWNSTAIRS into a half empty bar that looks like it does 2 for 1 cocktails on a Saturday night, so Felix can moan to Krystal about Jess and the Damien situation. They literally don’t even finish their drinks, look:
I hate to say it but it’s not looking good for Our Saviour Krystal. Over to Damien/Jess, and Damien says he loves Jess and is finding this situation hard. He doubts her relationship with Sealy because she said when she was going on the show she said she wanted to find a guy she didn’t have to “teach” non monogamy to. Jess explains she taught Felix the love languages, and we cut immediately to him co-opting this new information to look impressive to Krystal ahahahaha.
Anyway Jess says there are three options – pick Felix, dump Damien. Pick Damien, leave the show. Option three is “to have two boyfriends in a consenting way”. I’m no , but I don’t understand why there isn’t a fourth option called “keep dating Felix, who I barely know, while maintaining our relationship since you are okay with me being on the show”.
Meanwhile, Thomas has gone for a hike with Jas, and I cannot watch these two. I’m aware they’re both consenting adults of legal age and plenty of people have 10+ year age gaps in relationships (myself included lol) but these two give HUGE FAMILIAL VIBES so when they started kissing I was completely icked out.
They have zero chemistry and Thomas tends to just look at Jas with a sort of “how long do I have to pretend this is real” expression on his face.
On to the rose ceremony – will Jess show up? Will she just ride off into the sunset with Damien? I’m like PLEASE GOD GO WITH DAMIEN but even though they trick everyone by having Jess not appear for a few seconds, there she is, awaiting her fate.
Blah blah, roses go out, of COURSE Sealy picks Jess, and someone I STILL have never seen before goes home. The best bit is prob Krystal and Tilly’s faces when Jess gets picked.
I can’t believe we’re six episodes in and I can name about five women on this show. Anyway!!! Next ep of ? TASH IS BACK. I am so conflicted coz she was awfulllll but also you cannot say she didn’t bring the drama, can you.
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