Respecting your partner is not just something you think about, it tends to mean taking concrete actions, for example, not standing them up or actually doing something you said you would. Other times, people have to take more drastic measures to communicate that it’s not actually ok to take your partner for granted.
A woman shared her tale of petty revenge on her boyfriend after he wasted some of her time, so she did the same and inadvertently reduced him to tears. Later, she shared an update on what happened next and answered some user questions in the comments.