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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Sirin Kale

‘Some things can’t be repaired’: how do you recover when a friend betrays you?

Illustration of a betrayal being played out
‘We are a social species; when someone betrays us, it’s a real threat to our wellbeing.’ Illustration: Marie Jacotey/The Guardian

As the libel suit between Rebekah Vardy and Coleen Rooney rumbles on in the high court, the public has heard weeks of claims and counterclaims about Instagram stings, paparazzi ambushes and phones lost in the sea. But one thing has been clear from the outset: one of the two women has been betrayed. Either, as Rooney claims, Vardy sold stories about her fellow Wag to the Sun, or, as Vardy maintains, Rooney’s baseless accusation has dragged her good name through the mud.

It is a messy and sordid tale from which no one – except possibly the lawyers – emerges the better. Rooney has described Vardy’s WhatsApp exchanges about her as “evil”; Vardy has said that the threats and abuse she received after Rooney’s accusations made her feel suicidal. What is driving the former friends to spend millions airing their most intimate details?

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