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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
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Sisonke Msimang

Some temporary distance brought me and my daughter closer – and taught me that love is quietly joyful

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‘With her face framed on my phone screen, each time she called, our greetings were full of smiles’ … Sisonke Msimang. Photograph: Getty Images/iStockphoto

My daughter is 14, and on most days I feel like she barely grunts in my direction. She thinks everything I do is cringey and delights in telling me how awful my outfits are. So, when I went away for five weeks for a writing residency in Europe, I assumed I’d get a few sporadic text messages from her, but that I’d basically catch up on her life when I got back.

Instead, she called me every single day.

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