A child’s birthday can start with a seemingly simple plan—pizza, cake and a few friends—and somehow end with a venue deposit, balloon arch, custom cookies, party favors, matching decorations and a credit-card charge that looks more like a weekend getaway. Some parents are beginning to question whether all of that spending actually makes the birthday better.
A 2024 What to Expect survey of 404 women found parents spent an average of $314 on a child’s birthday party, while 20% reported spending more than $500. One parent surveyed had spent $7,000 on a party complete with catering, entertainment and a professional photographer. There’s nothing wrong with an elaborate celebration when a family genuinely wants one and can comfortably afford it. But parents looking for affordable birthday parties have another option: decide what their child will actually enjoy first, set a spending limit and stop paying for extras that mostly exist to make the party look impressive.
