Much like owning a boat, having a pool can seem luxurious until one realizes the amount of work it takes to keep it vaguely usable. So most couples that want one or the other really need to work out who is going to do what to avoid future drama.
A woman really wanted a pool at a house she and her husband were buying together, so they made it a reality. After taking care of it for years, he finally asked her to help clean it on her day off. When she made up some excuse, he called her out on never doing any of the upkeep. Netizens debated his position and a few gave him some advice.