Benny Blanco has revealed that he and Selena Gomez spent nearly nine months quietly dating in Los Angeles before going public, and says his now wife asked him a blunt question about whether he was sure he wanted their relationship in the spotlight.
The producer, 38, and the singer and actor, 33, kept fans guessing for months before Gomez finally confirmed their romance in late 2023. Two years later they were married, tying the knot on 27 September 2025, and have since settled into one of pop culture's more unexpected but oddly grounded power couples.
