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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Zoe Williams

Say goodbye to the sex drought! What the Danes can teach us about making more love

Kathrine Graa and Clara Filippa Andersen, sat in Peech, an adult entertainment store in Copenhagen
Kathrine Graa (left) and Clara Filippa Andersen, co-owners of Peech, an adult entertainment store in Copenhagen. Photograph: Valdemar Ren/The Guardian

Copenhagen on the Thursday before Valentine’s Day is intoxicatingly romantic. That’s not hyperbole – you could breathe in and be drunk on it. The canals have frozen over, which only happens about once every 13 years, and couples are skating on them. You can see cosy bars from miles away because they’re strung with fairy lights – apparently not just a Christmas thing here. Everyone is beautiful.

But none of that comes close to explaining why young Danes in Denmark, unlike gen Z across the developed world, are still having sex. Winter isn’t even their frisky season. “You feel the atmosphere in the springtime,” says Ben, 35, half-British, half Danish. His friend Anna, also 35, originally Hungarian, says: “Post-hibernation fever, you can feel the sexual energy. Everyone is on. Everyone swims in the canals, a lot of the women will be topless – they’re like herrings.” (Which is to say: they are typically Danish, they love the water and they don’t wear clothes … I think.) Ben and Anna are millennials, of course, rather than gen Z: they provide the outsiders’ perspective.

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