Two people can sit through the exact same bad day and walk away from it completely differently. One replays every small annoyance until the whole day feels ruined. The other lets most of it go and remembers the one good conversation instead. Marcus Aurelius, the Roman emperor, wrote about this exact gap nearly two thousand years ago. "The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts," he noted, before adding that it was worth guarding your mind carefully because of it. He was not writing this for an audience. He was reminding himself, on a page nobody else was ever meant to read, at a time when his own life gave him plenty of reasons to think otherwise.
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