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Kids Ain't Cheap
Kids Ain't Cheap
Latrice Perez

Psychologists Warn: The Praise Habit That Makes Kids Fear Failure

Praise Habit

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You tell your child they are “so smart” every time they bring home a good grade, thinking you are building their self-esteem. You want them to feel capable and confident as they head out into a competitive world. However, psychologists are sounding a major alarm about this specific type of praise in 2026. This common habit is actually creating a hidden fear of failure that can paralyze your child’s growth for years. Honestly, it is not your fault you were given the wrong script for encouragement. Here is the reveal of why “person praise” backfires and how to pivot to a healthier way of cheering them on.

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