The Word Before the Sweet
The Sanskrit root of prasada is not hard to find. Pra means fully, completely, a prefix of totality. Sad means to sit, to settle, to become clear. Put them together and you get something like: that which has fully settled into clarity. Serenity. The grace that comes when the mind stops churning.This is the word your grandmother used when she pressed a spoonful of panchaamrit into your hand at the Hanuman temple. She was not handing you a blessed sweet. She was, at least in the word's original intention, offering you a state of being.The confusion is old and understandable. Prasada as food exists because the ritual of offering, naivedya, involves food. But the food was never the point. The state of the person receiving it was.