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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Sam Pyrah

One night I’m a murderer, the next my husband’s having an affair. Why do we have the dreams that we do?

A woman with tousled hair dreams as she sleeps
‘Dreams communicate in a nocturnal language.’ Composite: Getty/Guardian Design (posed by a model)

When my husband brought me a cup of tea in bed the other morning, I could barely muster a “thank you”. I was furious that he’d spent the night blatantly cavorting with another woman (a friend of ours, no less).

Never mind that it only happened in a dream. The emotions – betrayal, outrage, rejection – felt real. My next words – “I had a dream last night” – echoed what Oscar Wilde is said to have deemed the most frightening sentence in the English language.

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