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Lisa Portolan

No dating apps, no dates, no exes, no hookups: what’s driving the ‘boy sober’ trend?

Three woman holding their mobile phones outside and looking at the screens — ‘The No 1 reason women are going boy sober is that the dating pool has turned toxic.’ Photograph: Catherine Falls Commercial/Getty Images

A new trend is sweeping TikTok: #boysober. Its rules? No dating apps, no dates, no exes, no hookups. Thousands of women are uploading videos describing why they have gone boy sober and extolling its benefits.

What could cause this kind of heterosexual exodus? Two words: dating apps.

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