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Salon
Daria Solovieva

Never date a "broke dude"

For Pattie Ehsaei, a banker who shares her financial wisdom on her popular TikTok account, her relationship with money has always been personal. 

As an Iranian-American child of first-generation immigrants, she witnessed the financial control her father exerted over his family. And as a young adult, she saw the unfathomable: a murder-suicide involving her parents. 

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