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Philippa Perry

My friend has embraced conspiracy theories and I’m fed up with it

January 6th Prisoners Rally, Washington DC, USA - 18 Sep 2021Mandatory Credit: Photo by Wolfgang Schwan/REX/Shutterstock (12450428q) Police stand guard as protesters gathered at the United States Capitol to voice their discontent of the persons who had been jailed or criminally charged in connection to January's Capitol Riot in Washington D.C. on Saturday, September 18th. January 6th Prisoners Rally, Washington DC, USA - 18 Sep 2021
‘Your friend’s embrace of conspiracy theories seems to be a modern manifestation of this same desire for certainty’: Philippa Perry. Photograph: Wolfgang Schwan/Rex/Shutterstock

The question I’ve had a good friend for more than 30 years, but since Covid he has become a conspiracy theorist. He only sources “alternative news” from the internet. He quotes hard right, conspiracy narratives. He supports Trump and Putin. He claims he is an anarchist and won’t vote. He becomes arrogant and insulting because I disagree with him. He doesn’t read books, but I do, so if I bring up a book on the subject, he just dismisses it. I’m beyond tired of his rhetoric and have increasingly become angrier that he just wants to shove his crap down my throat and gives me no credit for anything I have to say, he just wants me to agree with him. I’m saddened that it has come to this, but I feel that if he can no longer respect my views and needs to insult and degrade my opinions, then I’m better off without him. Is there any hope?

Philippa’s answer The Covid-19 pandemic not only brought health concerns but social isolation, economic instability and a sense that the world is changing in unpredictable ways. During such turbulent times, many individuals feel lost and fearful. It’s a natural response to crave solid ground in an effort to gain a sense of clarity amid the chaos.

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