'My flirty banter at work has given colleagues wrong impression – they think I'm going after married man'

Dear Coleen

I’m a woman in my late 20s and I work in a small team with really fun people. There’s a lot of banter and I suppose quite a flirty atmosphere sometimes.

Anyway, long story short, I’m single and I’m always talking about my rubbish love life and how desperate I am to meet someone. There’s one guy in the office who I get on really well with, but he’s married with a baby, so I’d never go there.