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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Entertainment
Dominik Diamond

My family is coming apart – so it’s time for one last video game session

A family of four watches someone play Space Invaders on a television screen in a living room
‘Games remind us that we always have more things in common than we sometimes feel’ … Photograph: Interfoto/Alamy Stock Photo

It is the end of an era for the Diamond family. For 20 years, there have been five of us living together. It has not been easy. Militant vegan daughters, sons who have inherited Scottish tempers, and a youngest child who attracts trouble like an industrial magnet, have meant our house has been conflict-laden at times. Throw in the fact that we are beset with all manner of mental health bobbins and chronic illnesses that resulted in two of our three kids almost dying in hospitals and you get a family that is combustible – but extremely close.

Through it all, we had games. They always brought us back together. Not just us all hunkering over Super Mario Kart like some kind of UN-mandated family therapy, but the conversations that happen when any of us spy another playing something new. Games are a cultural touchstone that helped us crack through the veneer of disagreements and distrust and remind us that we have more things in common than we sometimes feel.

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