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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Dunja Batarilo

My brilliant brother has Down’s syndrome. Is it wrong to fear getting pregnant myself?

Dunja Batarilo and her brother David, at the beach of Mondello, Sicily. January 2019, on a family trip
‘He’s crazy about our niece and keeps asking when I’ll have a baby’: Dunja Batarilo and her brother David in Sicily, January 2019. Photograph: Mia Marinkovic

Until three years ago, I thought I was brave. After all, I’m a girl who has trekked all the way across the Andes without a map. But there’s one thing that scares the hell out of me: getting pregnant.

It’s late 2018 and I’m 38 years old. I have always wanted to start a family, and I’ve reached a stage in life when doing so would make sense. I’ve established a career as a freelance journalist, and I’ve finally found the right man. We’ve been together for a year now; family and friends have begun watching closely to see if I’m still drinking alcohol.

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