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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Bridie Jabour

Mum watched me correct my husband, then sagely warned me: ‘Don’t become the expert in the baby’

A baby
‘Don’t correct your partner on how they change the baby or feed the baby, or whatever with the baby.’ Composite: Getty

When my first baby was born, I didn’t change his nappy for three days.

With my mum staying with us and my husband, Matt, on two weeks of parental leave I was looked after as well as the baby. Mum, a midwife and nurse of many years, showed us how to bathe the baby, got breastfeeding established and generally taught us what to do with a newborn.

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