Almost three quarters (71 per cent) of dog owners would rather invite their beloved pooches to their wedding than their own friends and family, according to new research. Data from online marketplace for pet care, Rover.com, has also revealed more than a third (37 per cent) plan to have their four-legged friend at their wedding ceremony.
For many, their pups will play a major role on the big day - ranging from ring bearer (29 per cent) and Pup-of-Honour (18 per cent), to Best Man (nine per cent). According to the study, which comprised of 1,000 engaged or recently married dog parents in the UK, 41 per cent said they would uninvite distant relatives to make space for their pooch.
While 34 per cent said work colleagues fell down the pecking order. Seven per cent admitted they would even ditch their mother-in-law to ensure their dog could attend.
In terms of food and ambiance, many said they'd happily go the extra mile for their four-legged friends, whether it’s offering a specific menu for the dogs in attendance (28 per cent), serving “pawsecco” (22 per cent), or creating a dog-friendly space for when the celebrations get too much (50 per cent).
And proving that dogs really are the true guests of honour, a third (33 per cent) insisted that a dog-friendly wedding venue was a priority for them. While 45 per cent even bought their canine companion a new outfit especially for the occasion - forking out £61.76 on average to ensure they look the part.
When it comes to immortalising the day, wedding photographers appear to have a new challenge on their hands, as two-thirds of those polled (64 per cent) intend to include their dogs in the official family photographs. They’re now also required to feature in candid shots throughout the day (32 per cent).
The decision to include pets in their big day comes down to couples seeing their dog as part of the family (88 per cent), and couldn’t imagine them not present. With many pups arguably providing the perfect test run before a human baby comes along, almost one in five (17 per cent) say their fur-baby was an integral part of their love story.
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Almost half (43 per cent) of those already married even said they regret not having their dog with them on their wedding day. However, for many the decision was out of their hands due to their venue not allowing pets (29 per cent).
The top ten ways couples include dogs in their wedding
- In official photographs (53 per cent)
- Walking down the aisle (37 per cent)
- Ringbearer (29 per cent)
- Flower pup (28 per cent)
- Pup-of-Honour/ Maid of Honour (18 per cent)
- Involve them in the meal (13 per cent)
- Included pet-related items on gift registry (12 per cent)
- Best man (nine per cent)
- Speeches (nine per cent)
- Dancing with them/first dance (nine per cent)
Adem Fehmi, Rover’s Canine Behaviourist comments: "Our dogs are much loved family members, and so it is only natural that we should want to include them in one of the most memorable days of our lives. Dogs embody love, fun and affection – qualities that are truly synonymous with weddings.
"Not to mention they are often adored mutually by their owners. So having them present can help bring a couple closer and add an even more special and poignant element to the occasion."
However, Adem also offers a word of caution to pet parents: "While weddings are a wonderful chance to celebrate and enjoy ourselves, they can come with their own stresses. If you’re choosing to include your dog in the wedding, make sure their safety and comfort is a top priority.
"Ensure there is suitable care for them throughout the day whilst you are preoccupied celebrating and mingling with your other guests." With this in mind, Adem has provided his top tips for including dogs at your wedding.
1. Give your dog a role that suits their individual character and one that they will enjoy
Whilst some dogs might love a busy event, some might find attending a wedding overwhelming. If this applies to your dog, consider involving your dog in the quieter aspects of your day so they can still be involved and enjoy it without stress.
2. Consider organising a reputable dog sitter or walker to help care for your dog on your big day
Provide a schedule of events and clear details of how you would like your dog to be involved. Ensure your dog has met them beforehand and is comfortable being with this individual prior to your big day. Positive reinforcers such as toys and treats can help here.
3. Think about the weather
Many weddings are held in spring and summer, which can bring warmer weather that could make your dog uncomfortable, or put them at risk. Ensure you have plenty of water available and tools such as cool coats.
If the temperatures are too high, don’t be afraid to prioritise your dog’s wellness and leave them at home with a sitter over any role you hoped they might play in your wedding.
4. What to do if your dog has to perform a specific role, wear a wedding themed harness or collar
Make sure you practice this and introduce these items positively and well in advance of your big day. This will ensure your dog is confident and comfortable when it comes to their big moment.
5. Keep them away from toxic foods
Certain foods can be harmful to dogs, such as alcohol, chocolate and fruit cake - which are all typical at weddings. This is where employing a guardian for your dog can really help - someone whose sole purpose is to look after them. They should be able to give their full attention and keep your dog away from any harm.
Find out more by visiting https://www.rover.com/uk/blog/pet-friendly-wedding/
