Millennial women were told to chase our dreams. That’s left us burnt out, broke and dreaming of a rich patron

‘Sometimes I want to slap myself for not having made smarter choices. For not having protected myself by investing or talking to experts.’ Photograph: Andor Bujdoso/Alamy

A couple of weeks ago, I came across an Amy Poehler joke in which she sums up the different generational experiences of money: “Boomers are all about money. Gen X is like: ‘Is it all about money?’ Millennials ask: ‘Where is the money?’ And gen Z is like: ‘What is money?’”

It made me laugh – but it also hit a nerve. It felt painfully accurate and oddly comforting. Maybe it’s not just me. I’m a millennial, and financial insecurity has been a theme in my life for a while. But recently, it’s grown louder, and I literally can’t stop asking: “WHERE IS THE GODDAMN MONEY?”