Dating is an absolute minefield, but having someone write a “warning” message to other men on your toilet seat - with your lipstick - takes things to new heights.
And that’s exactly what happened to one young woman.
21-year-old Lulu shared a clip of her cleaning a date’s message off her toilet seat in a now-viral TikTok.
The on-screen text reads: “Kicked out a Hinge date within 15 minutes of meeting him because bad vibes and he asked to use the bathroom before leaving and USED MY LIPSTICK TO WRITE ALL OVER THE SEAT.”
Since it was posted two days ago the clip has received 2.7 million views, 170,000 likes and 2,800 comments.
One commenter joked: “Only a man who never cleans his toilet would think this was a clever idea.”
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In a follow-up video, she explained that she asked her date to leave after deciding she just wasn’t “feeling it”. In a bid to spare his feelings, she told him that she was still hung up on an ex.
But what did he write? Apparently he scrawled: “She is effing her ex, run.”
He also included his phone number, presumably so he could tell her future dates “the story”.
“The fact that he spelled out ‘effing’”, one commenter laughed.
Another quipped: “Something tells me he thought this was a brilliant sneaky plan, and then forgot to put the seat down.”
“Normalize not making yourself go through with dates when you know you literally don’t want to talk to the person again,” another remarked.
Yikes.