The grieving families of Jesse Baird and Luke Davies will join friends at a vigil to honour the men as Sydney’s LGBTQ+ community attempts to come to terms with their alleged murders.
Friends of 26-year-old Baird – an AFL umpire and former television presenter – and 29-year-old Davies – a Qantas cabin attendant – organised Friday evening’s memorial event in Darlinghurst’s Green Park with the blessing of the men’s families.
“Thank you to everyone who has reached out for a community vigil for Luke and Jesse,” said New South Wales independent MP Alex Greenwich, who helped secure the use of the park, adding that condolence books would be available to sign at the event.
Separately, a floral tribute was continuing to expand at Baird’s Paddington home where the couple was allegedly shot and killed by serving police officer Beau Lamarre 10 days ago. Flowers overflowed from the terrace’s front steps on to the leafy street in Sydney’s eastern suburbs.
On Thursday, two men – who had flown from Brisbane but did not want to be named – paid their respects at the Paddington site where their close friend Davies was allegedly killed.
“He was the love of our friendship group,” one of them told Guardian Australia. “He was the light and love and laughter of everyone around him. He was a humble, beautiful man and he was a brother to many.”
Davies had worked with Tigerair Australia for seven years before he joined Qantas, the friend said. The airline ceased operations in late 2020.
“Tiger was his family. He touched so many people. He just had this thing about him,” the friend said.
Among the tributes left outside Baird’s home were scores of bright bouquets and candles. There was an AFL shirt and a maroon Qantas uniform scarf. Small Qantas and Tigerair model planes were nestled among the flowers.
One card, signed “A neighbour”, echoed the sadness of many: “Terribly sorry that your lives have been taken so young. Impossible to imagine the grief of your families. RIP together.”
Attached to a bunch of sun-wilted flowers, another read: “Lukey and Jesse. Rest in peace boys. We will miss you. So much.”
The alleged double murder has affected many beyond the pair’s immediate friendship group.
A bunch of flowers was left at the Paddington terrace with two mini bottles of Smirnoff vodka, balloons and a card that stated: “I didn’t know you guys but the love and legacy adored by your loved ones will be cherished for eternity.”
Qantas will honour former employee Davies on their Mardi Gras float on Saturday night. NSW police officers will not wear uniforms when they march after striking a deal with event organisers.
After Lamarre was charged with the alleged murders of Baird and Davies, the Mardi Gras board initially asked the force not to march in the parade for the first time since 1998.
The NSW police commissioner, Karen Webb, said on Wednesday the force had agreed to march in plain clothes “in consideration of the sensitivities”.
The Australian federal police confirmed its officers would not participate in Saturday’s parade.
“The AFP is pleased NSW police and organisers of the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras Parade have found a way forward for this year’s march,” an AFP spokesperson said.
“After careful consideration, the AFP will not march in this year’s parade, however, it is likely our members will continue to cheer on the sidelines and will participate in other events.”
Advocacy group Pride in Protest has organised a rally on Friday night after the vigil. The event at Taylor Square – the centre of the weekend Mardi Gras celebrations – will call for an end to police violence.
“We need justice for Jesse, for Luke … and for every victim of the police,” protest spokesperson Evan Van Zijl said on Thursday.
On Tuesday, about 60 people gathered at Bronte beach to hold a silent vigil for the two men after their bodies were discovered in surfboard bags hidden on a rural property at Bungonia about 160km south-west of Sydney.