Lenny Kravitz, the iconic rocker, and his ex-wife, Lisa Bonet, have always prioritized family. Their relationship, which spanned from 1987 to 1993, produced a beautiful daughter, Zoë, now 35. In a recent interview with PEOPLE, Kravitz opened up about their journey in raising their daughter together and the harmony they maintained throughout the years.
Kravitz proudly shared that they were able to navigate co-parenting without the need for lawyers or any unnecessary drama. 'We did it as a family, with love,' he remarked. This sentiment speaks volumes about their commitment to maintaining a healthy and supportive environment for their child.
When it came to Zoë's living arrangements, Kravitz explained that it all flowed naturally. She spent her earlier years living with her mother, and at the age of 11, she moved in with her father until she headed off to college. This arrangement seemed to work seamlessly for them, allowing Zoë to experience the love and care of both parents.
One particular memory that stands out for Kravitz is when he took an 11-year-old Zoë as his date to the Grammy Awards in 2000. It was a heartwarming father-daughter night that he cherishes to this day. He recalls how proud he was of her individual style and the joy they shared in spending time together.
Kravitz also mentioned how Zoë's love for the Spice Girls delighted him. As they were signed to the same label, she had the opportunity to meet her idols. The memory of Zoë sitting on their lap while meeting the Spice Girls is undoubtedly etched in her mind as a moment of sheer bliss.
Co-parenting with Bonet required understanding and the ability to handle their own business without involving others. Kravitz highlights that this is what 'Let Love Rule' is all about, a reference to his debut album, which was heavily influenced by Bonet. He believes that true co-parenting happens when ego and other distractions are set aside and when one simply does what they're supposed to do as a parent.
Kravitz acknowledges that finding this balance took time, but he and Bonet were determined to make it work. Their commitment to maintaining a harmonious co-parenting relationship still stands strong to this day.
The story of Lenny Kravitz and Lisa Bonet's co-parenting journey serves as an inspiration to many. It shows that, with love and understanding, it is possible to prioritize the well-being of a child while putting aside personal differences. Their dedication to raising Zoë together is a testament to their love for their daughter and their commitment to being the best parents they can be.
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