When you suddenly lose someone close to you, the phrase carpe diem makes more sense because you never know what life might surprise you with. It’s always better to forget grudges and live every day to the fullest, after all, our time on earth is too short.
This brother, however, held a grudge so strong that he refused to reconcile with his sister who was fatally ill, even after she asked him multiple times. After that, she made a last wish that she didn’t want him at her funeral, so their sibling obliged, but then faced backlash from their family!
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