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Bernadette B. Tixon

'Just Think About It': ICE Agent Who Searched Detained Woman's Phone Later Texted Her for a Date

Viral post claims agent who detained a US citizen later asked her out after accessing her phone. (Credit: usicegov/WikiMedia Commons)

A viral post circulating on X has prompted significant public concern after sharing a woman's account of being stopped and detained by Border Patrol agents in a Target car park, only to be contacted days later by one of the same agents who had gone through her phone during the stop. The post, shared by user @ValerieComplex on 16 March 2026, had accumulated over 750,000 views by the time of publication and has been reposted thousands of times. The post's title refers to the agent as an ICE officer, while its text describes the agents as Border Patrol; the original post does not clarify the distinction.

According to the account relayed in the post, the woman — a 26-year-old US citizen of Russian and Ukrainian descent — was speaking Russian to her mother on the phone when two masked agents in Border Patrol uniforms approached and stopped her. She was asked about her legal status, her employment and how long she had been in the country, despite having already handed over her driver's licence and passport card. She was then told to sit in the back of their vehicle while her identification was checked.

The Text That Followed

During the stop, one of the agents allegedly instructed her to unlock her phone and hand it over. She complied. The agent checked it for several minutes before returning it. Days later, the account states, she received a text from an unrecognised number. When she answered, the caller identified himself as one of the Border Patrol agents who had detained her. He told her that while going through her phone, he had noticed she had Bumble and Tinder installed, and decided to take her number directly to contact her.

She told him the behaviour was inappropriate and that if immigration enforcement needed to reach her, they had the contact details for her family's lawyer. According to the post, he responded that this was not an 'official business' matter. He said he knew she was single and looking to date, that he found her 'cute,' and that he liked how 'obedient' she was — described as the word he actually used. He then asked her out directly. When she declined and told him she did not think it was appropriate, he reportedly said, 'I got to get back to work now so just think about it,' and ended the call.

'Scared and Shaken'

The woman, as relayed in the viral post, described feeling 'scared and shaken' by the incident. 'Being detained itself was terrifying — to think where I'd be taken to or what would happen,' she wrote, adding that she was unsure whether she was 'overreacting, underreacting or what.'

The post drew thousands of responses, with many users raising concerns about the use of personal data accessed during immigration stops and the power imbalance involved when an enforcement agent uses information obtained under detention to pursue personal contact.

A Pattern of Documented Misconduct

A February 2026 review of criminal cases involving ICE employees and contractors found a broad range of alleged offences across the country. Former US Customs and Border Protection Commissioner Gil Kerlikowske warned that ICE agents are particularly 'vulnerable to unnecessary use of force issues' and said the agency is likely to see more serious misconduct problems as it rapidly expands, drawing comparisons to a wave of corruption and abuse that followed the Border Patrol's rapid growth between 2004 and 2011. Among cases examined, an ICE contractor pleaded guilty to sexually abusing a detainee at a facility in Louisiana over five months.

The American Immigration Council has separately noted that ICE and CBP agents have been 'routinely going far beyond what the law allows,' with aggressive tactics backed by unprecedented interpretations of their legal authorities.

The account shared via @ValerieComplex reflects broader concerns about accountability within ICE and Border Patrol at a time when both agencies have been granted significantly expanded enforcement powers. The woman in the account was a US citizen with valid documentation — and the stop still allegedly resulted in her phone being searched and her personal data being used in a manner she described as harassment.

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