Life lesson by Kenzaburō Ōe : People often believe they know themselves better than anyone else. Yet personal biases, denial, and self-deception can make it difficult to see situations clearly. It is natural to justify mistakes, ignore uncomfortable truths, or create explanations that protect self-esteem. While these habits may offer temporary comfort, they can also prevent honest self-reflection and personal growth. Japanese Nobel Prize-winning author Kenzaburō Ōe believed that self-deception can cloud judgment, making it harder for people to make wise decisions about their own lives. His words encourage individuals to confront reality with honesty, even when it is uncomfortable.