There was a time when Taylor Swift and Blake Lively were the best of friends. Lively and her husband Ryan Reynolds were the first people to hear Swift’s new music, and the singer was the godmother to the couple’s four children — she even name-dropped Inez, James and Betty in her song “Betty.” However, things have cooled significantly between the two since Swift got roped into Lively’s legal drama with Justin Baldoni. If we needed more proof that these two are on the outs, Swift’s alleged silence on Lively’s birthday should do the trick.