Looking after an adult with autism can be challenging, and it can become more difficult if someone is downright forced into doing it. When it’s pushed upon a person, it’s neither good for them nor for the one who’s disabled, because coaxed relationships never really work.
Just take a look at Reddit user SecretAmbassador1979, whose husband wanted his autistic twin brother to move in with them, but she refused as she knew it would be a big challenge. This drew ire from her sister-in-law who was his previous caretaker, and it eventually ended in a family feud!
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