Am I wrong to want to distance myself from a new friend due to their relationship choices? I recently made a friend via our children’s daycare. Although we get on well, our relationship probably was accelerated by my wanting to support her through an on-and-off relationship with a man she has described as emotionally abusive.
Recently her ex-partner has begun to grovel for forgiveness, which is a usual pattern after their breakups. I’m worried that he is wearing her down and she is spending time with him again. This man is a major focus of our conversations and a large amount of energy.