I never text back – and it’s ruining my relationships

Finding another person responsive, psychology professor Harry Reis said, can contribute to feelings of liking and attraction. Photograph: The Guardian

“There’s no such thing as a bad texter. They just don’t want to respond,” said influencer Delaney Rowe last year on the online talkshow Subway Takes. “People go around thinking being a bad texter is like a pathology, but it’s not. It’s a cop-out.”

“I don’t believe in bad texters,” announced radio host Dan Zolot last year. “If you want to answer you will answer.”