'I married handsome man 25 years older than me - 15 years later I'm regretting it'

Dear Coleen

I’m a 40-year-old woman married to man who’s just turned 65. We met when I was 25 and he was a very young, dynamic 50 year old (recently divorced) and we fell madly in love. He was such a handsome, fun guy, so when he proposed I didn’t think twice.

We had two children together, who are nine and 12. We adore them and they keep us very busy. But things aren’t going well in the marriage and the problems have been going on for about a year.