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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Philippa Perry

I’m nearly 60, but my father’s indifference towards me still stings

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‘That two-year-old part of you who longed for his father is still there, still waiting to be seen and valued.’ Photograph: Getty Images

The question I’m a man in my late 50s. My parents were teenagers when I was born. They married so I wouldn’t be illegitimate, it was the 1960s. My parents divorced. My mum and stepdad moved up north, my father remarried and stayed down south.

My father and his wife have three children, now in their 40s. My stepdad killed himself when I was in my early 20s, but I’ve come to realise he was much more of a parent to me than my actual father.

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