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The Guardian - AU
The Guardian - AU
Lifestyle
Eleanor Gordon-Smith

I have terminal cancer. I fear dying and leaving my daughter with my husband. What can I do?

Auguste Toulmouche - Consolation 1867.
‘How do I get my husband to “grow up” to ensure our daughter’s future?’ Painting: Consolation by Auguste Toulmouche, 1867. Photograph: Artefact/Alamy

I was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer three years ago, when my only child, a daughter, was eight. My cancer was discovered too late for a cure, ironically because I was in very good shape, a non-smoker, and otherwise in good health and a dedicated exerciser.

I will probably die within the next few years – I was initially given less than two years to live but have bucked the prognosis for now. I am in a treatment that has very severe side effects, key of which is extreme fatigue. Nonetheless, I try to make the best of it and exercise almost every day as a way to counteract the pain and fatigue.

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