I find myself torn at 34. Should I move overseas or let my life roll into babies and houses?

‘One thing to keep in mind is that you don’t have to make every choice at once.’ Painting: Ariadne Abandoned by Theseus (1774) by Angelica Kauffman. Photograph: Album/Alamy

Pre-pandemic I lived in the city, had a badly paying job in the arts, sublet an attic and spent my time faffing about doing fun stuff with my gorgeous friends. But I never had much money, my mental health was a bit squiffy (lots of highs and lows) and my romantic relationships always ended in disaster.

So post-pandemic I moved away, got a well paying job, a nice boyfriend who wants to settle down and have children and I don’t have the highs and lows any more.