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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Nelufar Hedayat

I feel guilt talking to those left behind in Afghanistan. While I enjoy freedom, they are prisoners

Man in camouflage uniform with gun over shoulder holding long stick next to bags of food, beside column of women in burqas
A Taliban soldier stands guard as women arrive to receive food supplies in Kabul, 25 March 2025. Photograph: Wakil Kohsar/AFP/Getty Images

There are fewer and fewer stories coming out of the land of my birth. Before, I would open Instagram and see my cousins, lip-syncing to trending videos, posing with flowers at a rose garden or at a trendy cafe in their coolest outfits, keeping a record of their lives. I would hear British-Afghan friends talk about their recent trips to the provinces, towns and cities of their foremothers and the buzz of learning about their heritage. I would eagerly await the latest music video from Afghanistan’s many pop stars, all vying to become the hottest track played at weddings, not just in Afghanistan but all over the world. Afghanistan, its culture, and people felt closer back then.

Five years ago today, the brittle peace of the fragile new democracy was shattered by the withdrawal of western military, diplomatic and charitable groups that had intervened in the country’s fate since 2001. Overnight, on Sunday, 15 August 2021, Afghanistan was undone and abandoned.

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