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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Bibi van der Zee

I curled up with my sister and we opened our stockings together one last time – the Christmas present I’ll never forget

Bibi van der Zee, seven, and Ninka, aged six, in 1979
The sisters in 1979 … Bibi van der Zee, aged seven (left), and Ninka, aged six Photograph: Handout

We didn’t know until the very last minute whether my sister would be let out of hospital for Christmas.

It was 1991 and we were camping in a house in London that a friend had lent my parents, waiting to find out. Home, in theory, was Rome for my parents, Edinburgh for me – but in practice, a year and a bit into my sister’s leukaemia, home was wherever Ninka was being treated. There had been a brief, sunny period in the summer where she had been in remission. When the cancer came back, Mum just put her into the car and drove her from Italy to the Royal Free Hospital in London.

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