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The Guardian - AU
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Louis Hanson

I am the infamous non-responder in our group chat. Does that make me a bad friend?

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Women holding smartphones having an online conversation
‘When it comes to the group chats, the conversations move so rapidly that if I’m not present for the first five minutes of the discussion, I’ve suddenly missed 67 messages.’ Photograph: We Are/Getty Images

There’s always one nonexistent friend in the group chat. That infamous non-responder, loitering in the background, whose contribution to the chat’s discourse remains minimal … if not extinct.

That friend is me. Consider this my self-appointed intervention.

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