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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Lizzie Cernik

How we met: ‘There was a heatwave and he didn’t have air conditioning. So I invited him to sleep on my floor’

Lori and Marc on their 27th wedding anniversary.
Lori and Marc on their 27th wedding anniversary. Photograph: Courtesy of Lori and Marc

By the time Lori was in her mid-30s, she was ready to settle down. “I was living alone in Chicago and I’d just started a klezmer band – it’s like Jewish folk music combined with jazz,” she says. “I was taking a break from my graduate studies in Russian language and literature.”

Internet dating wasn’t popular in 1995, but when she discovered an online bulletin board (a kind of forum) for Jewish singles, she decided to try it. “There were not many women online then. It was mostly me and lots of computer programmers,” she says, laughing.

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