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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Lizzie Cernik

How we met: ‘I sensed she wasn’t keen on me. I can come on a bit strong’

‘We’re both strong-willed, and we butted heads at first’ …  Laine (right) and Frances.
‘We’re both strong-willed, and we butted heads’ … Laine (right) and Frances. Photograph: Supplied image

When Laine moved to New Jersey a few years after leaving college, she was looking for a new experience. “I’m from Nashville, but I had friends on the east coast,” she says. In 2009, she found a job as a school administrative assistant. “I’d just started dating my husband and was living with friends. It was a really fun time for me.”

Frances was working at the school as a teacher, but Laine didn’t warm to her at first. “She seemed more organised and grownup than me. We’re both strong-willed, and we butted heads,” she says. “She asked me for things that I felt were too demanding, although in hindsight I was being a bit lazy.”

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