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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Lifestyle
Lizzie Cernik

How we met after 60: ‘He is the first person in my life who has really taken care of me’

‘We had a shared understanding’ … Sterling (right) and Berkeley.
‘We had a shared understanding’ … Sterling (right) and Berkeley. Photograph: Supplied image

After losing his job as a classical music buyer in 2008, Sterling struggled to get back on track. Four years later, he found himself homeless and staying with a friend in San Francisco. Unable to get a full-time job, he worked at a small Buddhist bookshop, where he was paid a weekly stipend.

“I’d turned to Buddhism in my early 60s to help me clear some emotional challenges I’d struggled with in the past,” he says. “By 2012, I had also started writing and was working on a fantasy novel. While searching for writers’ groups, I spotted a support group for gay men. I had no expectations but I thought I’d give it a shot.”

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