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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
Entertainment
Danielle Lucas

How a decade of playing Final Fantasy XIV has helped me through life and motherhood

A scene from Final Fantasy XIV
‘It became a lifeline of when my world felt like it was shifting uncontrollably around me’ … Final Fantasy XIV. Photograph: PR

It’s no secret that the art that moves us becomes associated with certain periods of our lives: the song that helped you navigate your first breakup, the movie that helped you take those first steps into adulthood, the book that persuaded you to try something new. Video games, however, are unique in that some are designed to be played for years. They can develop alongside you, grow up with you, or be a consistent refuge from the mundane.

I’ve played Final Fantasy XIV for a full decade now, enraptured by its fantastical locations and a story that takes you from green adventurer to universe-saving hero. It’s always been the game I turn to unwind at the end of a long day, and my life has completely changed alongside it. I’ve gone from the early stages of my career and a draughty flat, through a long-term relationship, and now I have a house and child – my character, Cel, was there for the whole journey.

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