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I am (40F) and my boyfriend is (36M). Anyway, I usually set a budget every year to spend on everybody. I did that again this year, and he yelled at me, “I make the money, you don’t,” even though I’m actively looking for a job. Money has been tight, and I thought sticking to the budget that we’ve set every year was reasonable. He has never gotten mad about it before.