Food is enjoyable and should be enjoyed, even if there is a quirk mixed into it. Preferences in food are very human and very normal. And so preparing a dish the way you want them should be a non-issue regardless of whether you’re the one prepping it, or asking someone else to do it.
Yet, there’s also a non-zero chance that the person preparing the food for you will not understand why you like the food this way and will proceed to do the opposite, making the situation spiral into chaos.