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The Guardian - UK
The Guardian - UK
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Emma Beddington

From Grindr to threesomes, can we please stop calling anything sex-related ‘spicy’?

‘It’s interesting how we let food descriptors stand for sex’ … A couple holding a strawberry between their teeth
‘It’s interesting how we let food descriptors stand for sex – spicy, saucy, vanilla.’ Photograph: Fuse/Getty Images (posed by models)

I was fascinated by a recent interview with Amrapali Gan, the newish CEO of OnlyFans. Not by her blandly rehearsed claims that the platform isn’t mainly porn, and is, in fact, enabling diverse and empowered creativity – sports, cookery, fashion! – but by her use of the word “spicy”, which cropped up four times as a synonym for sexually explicit. “A bunch of spicy content … something on the spicier side … some of it might be spicy … spicier content.”

That feels oddly coy, when you’re talking about a site hosting, for example, “super-specific niche fetish” and “vanilla hardcore”, as an OnlyFans content creator described it on a forum. (I can’t explore further, because I’m certain if I do, a wailing Internet Pervert klaxon will resonate throughout my neighbourhood. Yes, I’m extremely well adjusted, thanks.)

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